Its a no-no to tell someone you do not like their gift because its the thought that counts, right?

Sure, but just how nice are your thoughts towards your gift giver who doesnt listen in order to understand what your likes and dislikes are? How disappointed are you when with anticipation you unwrap your gift to stare down at an ugly pair of socks, or when your husband of four months decides his wife would definately love a broom for Valentines Day?

Gift giving is more than just the thought. Its the thought, the gift, the intention the whole package. The best gifts are ones that directly think of the recipient, thats truly when the thought counts.

If you know your boyfriend will just about die for the whole collection of South Park, then why buy him a tie? What assessment of worth would your girlfriend find in a pretty package of art supplies when she has no interest in painting?

Weve devoted a whole page on our website with Horror Gifts Received.

Take for example the man who received a box of chocolates from his girlfriend who should have known that he was allergic to it. Or the man whose girlfriend gave him tickets to a show he didnt want to see.

When it comes to your loved ones, gifts shouldnt be given out of obligation but from the heart. Gifts that are appreciated might be practical or they could be impractical. This depends on what your recipient desire or would like.

When I was at college I really needed a writing book on C programming. I kept borrowing a copy from the library but there we are times when they we are all taken. At that measure , I couldnt afford to buy one for myself. How would I have loved a writing book as opposed to the sterling silver bracelet my then boyfriend gave me? It was a lovely gesture but

To find the perfect gift, we have to tune into that human . Listen to what they have to say. Did you watch the Friends episode where Ross bought Rachel the broche she had seen in a shop window some many years ago? Whats what I mean by tuning in. Find what the person target and then give it to them. Thats when the thought really counts.

You understand when you have done a grand job with your gift selection when you absolute astonish your recipient.

There are times when we dont understand what our recipient would like. There are safe gifts we can give. Safe gifts are flowers, a gift basket perhaps, even a bottle of wine - something that is popularly considered nice. Safe gifts are what we give everybody we dont understand too well.
From someone that has been disappointed many times and astonished others, if you are to give, listen to what your recipient wants. You will find they will treasure you and your gesture 100 fold.